I'm so excited to be working with you and I can’t wait for our
time together during your upcoming newborn session! It’s
normal to be a little nervous about your session. I always tell
people that I still get nervous before having my photos taken -
and I do this for a living!
I'm so honored to help you create and capture memories that
you'll cherish for a lifetime. There is a lot to think about when it
comes to planning a session, so I've created this guide to help
you get the most out of your photos. By the time you've read
through this guide you'll have all of your questions answered
and feel more than ready and prepared for your session. Then I'll
take care of the rest.
I’ll cover what to wear, whether to incorporate your pets & how
to manage them, styling your space and more! I can't wait to
get you in front of my camera!
xoxo, Melissa
For your comfort and convenience, newborn sessions ideally
take place in your home. If your home doesn't allow for great
natural light, we can also discuss holding your session outdoors or at a rental studio!
Newborn sessions are best when they occur 7-14 days after the
baby is born. This is when babies are most fresh, flexible, sleepy,
and likely without baby acne.
In my experience, one to two hours is the ideal time frame for a
lifestyle newborn session. A majority of your poses will include
mom, dad, and siblings. If you have cherished four-legged family members, I love to grab a few shots with them too after the humans have all taken their turn! Toward the end of your session I will
photograph some individual shots of the baby using natural, baby-led posing.
To allow for the best light, and a sleepy baby, I typically like to schedule
your session to start at 10:00 in the morning. If you know your desired room gets nice, soft light at a different time of day instead, be sure to let me know! To get the most out of your session, please plan a
30 minute buffer when getting ready so you are ready before I
arrive and your session can start on time. We’ll want to take
advantage of every minute we have together!
Choose one or two rooms in your home to unclutter and style for your newborn session. Rooms with large windows, free of dark shade-screens, far from surrounding walls, and void of
thick shrubbery are ideal. It could be the living room, nursery,
master bedroom, or even the kitchen!
Dress up the spaces with simple, subtle touches like fresh
flowers, meaningful heirlooms, or neutral decor. Light and
bright is my signature style! Also be sure to unplug phone chargers and other distractions to keep the focus on your beautiful family.
When I arrive, I'll wrap Baby in a swaddle
and we'll take your family photos for about 45 minutes. I usually begin with the whole family and siblings first to account for their short attention spans, and then move onto portraits with just mom and just dad while big bro/big sis grab a snack and get back to playing on their own. For Baby's individual, posed portraits, I
will use a combination of their crib, master bed, and/or posing basket dependent on lighting.
If there's anything else you'd like to include during the posed
photos, please have those handy (accessories, mini stuffed
animals, etc.). For safety reasons, I don't place the baby in any
props like crates, trucks, etc.
Quick tip: If you have colorful or dark bedding in the master bedroom, I suggest
replacing it with white or ivory linens for our session. This will help with achieving my
signature bright and airy style and place the focus directly on Baby!
Thinking of an outdoor session instead? A beautiful park with tall wispy grass or an old oak tree can make for a dreamy newborn session. Ask me for location suggestions!
You just brought your baby home!
Whether you're a birth mom or adoptive mom, you'll be living in
comfortable clothes for the next few weeks, so let's do our best
to portray the authentic-ness of life with a newborn!
If you're breastfeeding, choose clothing that is nursing-friendly.
Babies may want to nurse often throughout your session, so
dressing appropriately will save time and frustration when
he/she needs to eat. I'm a nursing mom myself, so I know how
often newborns need to breastfeed. A happy and fed baby
makes for a smooth portrait session!
Use these
tips while shopping...
Say YES to the dress! Long, flowy skirts and dresses look most stunning because they really flatter every female body - especially on camera.
Softer, pastel colors tend to photograph better than bright
colors - especially since bright colors could reflect on your skin. I
love bright, neon dresses, but I don’t love the neon reflection
they add to your complexion.
Play around with fabric textures, they can add a lot of delicate detail to your photos!
Be careful when choosing patterns. Subtle patterns photograph nicely and add visual interest, whereas bold patterns can be distracting.
Accessories...
Keep it simple. Large jewelry pieces will distract from where we
want the focus: on the baby! Wear your wedding band and
small earrings only, if desired.
Hair & Makeup...
Professional hair & makeup is typically at the top of my clients'
checklists because it looks amazing on camera and takes away
much of the stress of getting ready on your own. This is the time
to treat yourself! Professional hair and makeup will last longer
and give you that extra boost of confidence in front of the
camera. Bonus tip: Always say YES to false lashes!
I work with some of the best hair and makeup artists in the
area, who would be so thrilled to get you glammed up for your
session. They totally get my style and will treat you like the
queen you are in the comfort of your own home. If you need a list of referrals just let me know
and I'll send you the list.
Manicure...
There will definitely be times during your session when we’re
shooting your hands - which means it’s a good idea to clean up
your nails before your session (this applies to the guys too!).
Have your fingernails, toenails, and cuticles clean and
manicured with a pale pink or neutral polish.
Use these
tips while shopping...
Soft, neutral colors are the best choice. We want the mood to be
calm and relaxing.
A soft t-shirt, henley, or dress shirt with jeans or slacks is ideal. Solid
shades of white, light gray, blue, khaki, and soft pink are a strong
compliment to most women’s outfits, whereas pinstripes or
plaid patterns tend to distract the eye.
I also recommend staying away from graphics, logos, and
shorts. Simplicity really is the better choice!
Make sure Dad has bare feet or neutral socks.
Shoes can stay in the closet for this occasion.
In my experience, every woman--regardless of her shape--has
an area of her body that she's self-conscious about, so
recognizing that area in advance is key.
Choosing flattering silhouettes and colors that complement
your natural features is the best way to ensure you'll love the
way you look in your photos.
It's absolutely normal to still look somewhat pregnant after
delivering a baby. It takes time for your uterus to shrink back to
it's pre-pregnancy size! This is why most moms choose to wear loose, flowy dresses
versus tight-fitting clothing for their newborn photos. Plus, it's
way more comfortable! Off-the-shoulder or long sleeve dresses have a slimming effect
on all arms, while strapless, sleeveless, or spaghetti strap
dresses have the opposite effect.
When considering the length of your dress, factor in whether or not you'll have young children with you. If you have little ones,
you'll likely be sitting or squatting next to them. Cute, cocktail
length dresses are adorable, but make these poses difficult, as
do low-cut tops and high leg slits.
Colors...
Clients often consider the colors of the nursery or home decor where they plan to hold the newborn session when selecting outfit color. You'll want your outfit choice to suit the space and blend well on your walls where you plan to display prints. A good tactic is to choose one or two featured colors and use complementary shades to add richness to your aesthetic along with whites, ivory, khaki, or grey to fill in the gaps.
There’s no such thing as too much white.
Don't be afraid of white! Having everyone in varying shades of
white, or other very pale colors, will ensure that your images are
in line with my bright and airy style. White, ivory, cream, and
champagne complement all skin tones.
Yes, even if you don't have a tan! White clothing instantly
brightens your images, no matter the decor or how much
natural light is in your home!
Mixing it Up...
Skirts, dresses, and rompers...oh, my!
If you have multiple children, don’t feel like you need to put
them all in the same type of outfit. For example, one of your
daughters could wear a dress, while the other wears a skirt.
One of your sons could wear a button-down, while the other
one wears a long sleeve t-shirt. Mixing up the wardrobe pieces
will bring a great visual interest to the photos.
Prepping the Little Ones...
Snacks, treats, and lots of smiles
Before your session, grab a little bag with snacks, water, and any
small, neutral-colored toys that your child loves (just in case the
toy ends up in your photos). Those may help to get their
attention when it's time for them to look at the camera. I also
suggest having your kids avoid screen time the morning of your
session.
Have Fun!
Get ready for laughs and snuggles! A lot of families discuss and choose something fun in advance
as a treat or reward for a job well done, like an ice cream date or
bowling adventure. They're little, and I know things don't always
go as planned.
Give them (and yourself!) lots of grace. I've seen it all and will
make sure to deliver some beautiful photos, regardless of their
moods. My goal is to make this as fun and stress-free as it
possibly can be for you and your family!
Newborn sessions require a lot of patience so we can work alongside baby's needs. If baby allows, please have them fed as close to our start time as possible. We want them full, happy, and sleepy! It's perfectly okay if baby becomes fussy during the session and needs to be fed again, this is a normal occurrence during a newborn session. Another helpful tip is to boost the thermostat to keep them nice and warm. Baby will be photographed at times in a thin wrap or mostly nude and they're more likely to stay asleep in a warm environment.
Wraps and tight swaddles will
photograph better than clothing. Bodysuits and other clothing
tend to look too baggy. I will bring a few swaddles to choose from and get
the baby wrapped up nice and tight at the start of your session.
I will also bring along headbands if you'd like to
add accessories to your sweet baby.
You're also welcome to incorporate your own swaddle blankets and headbands if you have a something special already picked out.
Be sure to cut the baby's nails so he/she doesn't leave scratches
on his/her face and check between their toes for lint. It's a true mystery of how they accumulate all the fuzzies!
To Do...
-Set date, time and location with Melissa once the baby is born
(remember, within the first 14 days is best!).
-Review Guide for style tips.
-Choose your outfits. Feel free to reach out to Melissa if you need suggestions or assistance.
-Schedule hair and makeup appointments
if you don't feel up to doing it yourself.
-Prepare home for photoshoot. Bonus Tip: Try to have the space all set long before you go into labor! You won't want to worry about tidying up right after delivery.
Things to have handy
...
-Pacifier
-Bottle (if baby is taking one) and/or breastfeeding pillow
-Touch-up makeup
-Water for parents
-Snacks and water for little ones
-A close friend or family member to help with pets and/or
toddler
-If you have a toddler or younger child, small eye-catching
items to keep their attention, like toys or lollipops
After the Session...
Within a week of your session, I will edit a handful of my
favorites and share them on social media as a sneak peek. I will continue to
select the best of the best images from your session, edit them
to perfection, and send the link to your final gallery within 30
days.
Once you view your gallery, you can print photos, order birth announcements, and design heirloom photo albums... either from my professional print lab or a lab of your choice. Details about ordering from the professional lab will be included in your gallery delivery.
Closing Thoughts...
I know I just gave you a lot to think about.
I created this guide to help make you feel prepared and set the stage for a successful session. I want your newborn session
experience to be something you'll look back fondly on for years and
years and treasure the images we produce.
It's not just about the photos for me. It's about the experience
and the memories. I want your session to be a time when you
are yourselves, have fun, laugh a lot, soak up those newborn snuggles, and let me take care of the
rest!
xoxo, Melissa
{The Despines Family}
"Melissa creates magic. She has captured the most special moments of my family’s life. I would never hesitate to recommend her to anyone who wants a true professional to create a customized photography experience. Melissa is fast to respond, patient and goes the extra yard to ensure you have the best experience. Not to mention she was beyond kind to our little ones during the entire shoot. They loved her! We can't wait for our next shoot with her."
{The Mitchell Family}
"Melissa is the absolute best! She is sweet and patient, walking us through everything, making us laugh the entire time! And our pictures were amazing. She was truly able to capture everyone’s personalities, and they feel so natural. We’ve had so much fun every time we’ve had a session with Melissa. So thankful for her capturing these phases of lives so beautifully!"
"AJ and I cannot thank you enough for the work that went into making our day a success. From the very beginning, you were so warm and helpful, and it made planning our wedding so much easier. The day was so smooth and, honestly, AJ and I are still talking about the fact that it was absolutely perfect!"
{Holly}
"The best decision I made was booking my maternity session with Melissa Mayrie Photography. I am absolutely in love with me images and I love the way she captured my husband and I with our expecting rainbow baby! If you are torn on who to book with, this is your sign to book with her"